Back

The Bayeux Tapestry and how we absorb | Day 115 of my 2023 Journal

Cecilie Conrad·Apr 25, 2023· 3 minutes

I find it fascinating to see my unschooled children engage with the tapestry and the Museum of History and Art in Bayeux.

I remember history class.

I remember reading the same sentence over and over; nothing would stick.

It repelled, like throwing water on a goose, as we say in my language.

I also remember going for walks with my uncle, how he would talk and explain, and how everything we would see was a prompt for him. I loved it, and to this day, I remember most of it.

bajeux-2

The way history is taught in schools, dripping from a curriculum, emerging from books written for “children” underestimating their intelligence will, for most students, forever be irrelevant. It is just like math. There will always be one or two who love it, and they will most likely become the next generation of teachers, but for the rest, it is a pain.

Don't get me wrong. I believe Goethe was right when he said: “He who cannot draw on three thousand years is living from hand to mouth.” I think all knowledge will make life more fun, nuanced, and interesting. And I study history my way now, all the time.

bajeux-8

What I do not believe in is pushing it down people's throats, as if feeding a foie gras goose. There is no way learning will ever be meaningful if it is not:

  1. Voluntary
  2. Makes sense
  3. Is relevant

They engage on all levels. They are interested in the wool, the story told, and the history of kings. They notice the ships look like Viking ships and listen to an almost 2-hour podcast beforehand.

They ask questions. They share information with their friends. They dive in deep, even though it is the second time they come.

At the Museum of History and Art, they were frustrated with not having enough time and asked if we could come back one day on our own so that they could read ALL of the signs.

bajeux-5

There is no structure as to how they learn, there is no ambition, and there is no pressure, yet they do absorb the past 3000+ years of world history as we live our lives.

Love and light

Cecilie-Underskrift-300x133

Cecilie Conrad

# 115 of my 2023 writing challenge - Read them all here


Thank you for reading
I would love to hear from you. Listen to your thoughts and reflections - or praise :) It is often emotional to share our life like this, and we get very happy when we get feedback from you. So feel free to share a comment below 😋 
What is the price of unfreedom? How does managerialism control our work, childhood, and daily lives? Inspired by our conversation with Dennis Nørmark…Read more
We live by the stories, we can imagine, we understand through the lens of eyes of heroes and victims and witches and kings and everyone else from the…Read more
In Finhan, where we live in February 2025, not much is happening. The church in the square strikes its hour, funnily enough, twice, so if you didn't …Read more
In this first episode of season two of The Ladies Fixing the World, we explore the philosophy and practicalities of unschooling and showcase its tran…Read more
How did we end up in Scandinavia mid-winter, and why did we need to see that contrast? How life crashes suddenly, like hitting a tree on the side of …Read more
There is this saying about lemons: if life throws them at you, just make lemonade. But really?! To me, it sounds like bullshit. When life gives you l…Read more
Sometimes, we have to stay very clear and keep the spirit very open when the Universe is talking, and there is a delay in the translation. This is a …Read more
I often say that I love change and that I trust the process. But what about pain? When is it hard? What when I did not choose the change, did not wan…Read more
Do I even have time to journal when there are just nineteen minutes until the next podcast recording? I’ve just had a fascinating conversation with …Read more