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Is It Too Much? - Note on Teens and Technology - England 2025

Cecilie Conrad·Aug 4, 2025· 2 minutes

“Look who just posted!” an excited teen cries out to friends and family in a kitchen one August afternoon in South East England. Two almost complete families, three dogs, and friends from three countries joining the fun, when someone realises there is a note from a shared friend. Laughter, discussions, and inspiration follow.

What would have happened if that moment of flipping out the phone midst social time was considered to be socially unacceptable or restricted by screentime - would they have connected on something else? Maybe. But they would certainly not have connected with that friend.

Teenagers and electronics is teenagers unfolding in their social development, skills and LIFE.

Is it too much? Too much of what?

Too much obsession with likes, shares and comments? Too much energy leaving the room, discussing people outside of the immediate social field? Too fragmented social commitment?

Sometimes, but rarely, that is what I see.

More often, I see confidence, creativity, fun, self-exploration, adventures, thoughtfulness, learning journeys, and passionate commitment to connections everywhere. Are they busy with other people's lives in unhealthy ways? Most often not, no. That is not what I see.

And if they are off, if the balance is not achieved, it the use of social media IS too much, it is actually not about social media, but about being out of balance - needing something you don’t get, living under too much pressure, feeling not enough fulfilment, meaningfulnes, unconditional love, alignment, direction. Taking our children's hands, and walking with them in life, so this is their feel when they are in puberty, and they can stay there even when waters are rough, is OUR responsibility as parents and community, and it is simply too easy to blame it on a piece of technology.

Algorithm or not.

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