Cecilie Conrad logo - dark
Cecilie Conrad logo - light
⌘K
Blog Podcast Unschooling Parent consultant About me
bBlog
pPodcast
uUnschooling
pParent consultant
aAbout me
Back

If you want your children to be intelligent, read them fairy tales

Cecilie Conrad·Aug 1, 2021

Einstein apparently said the following. “If you want your children to be intelligent, read them fairy tales. If you want them to be more intelligent, read them more fairy tales.”

If we read stories for our children in order to raise their IQ, it is very sad. And wrong.

But if we want to open the world to our children, show them the nuances and options, make life magic and interesting, I fully agree.

Stories are of extreme value, all of them. Every narrative element will feed our existence with options, our filters with nuances, our perspective with structure. The more stories we know, the more dreams we can and will pursue, the more energy we have for thinking, the more nuances we understand, the more wholehearted our tolerance, the more precise our values. This is true for the old tales from ancient Greece and the classic cartoons from the 80’es, any story that will keep you interested long enough to read it has something to offer.

It is one of the key problems with schooling, especially compulsive state schooling: There will be a curriculum. Even in a free, local, barefoot hippie school, there will (most likely) be a teacher or leader to pick a curriculum. “Everyone has to read this book.”

I am highly educated, and I am a true bookworm. I have read thousands and thousands of pages of written text, I love the classics and the crime novels, I love the cartoons, the movies, and the audiobooks, I treasure children’s books, and I love mythology. I would say any genre, but I do not really like SciFi, and I am not into scary books. But that’s just me. I know they have high value, and maybe there will be a time.

Even being this reading person, reading and reading for more than 30 years, NOTHING can make me read a book I don’t want to read, a book that does not talk to me, that will not catch my immediate attention and interest.

Why would I ask my children to force themselves through something that does not talk to them instead of letting them read whatever is right for them at the moment?

Newer post Unschooling is about freedom
Older post Education and learning cannot be stopped

Comments

Write a comment...
00:00 Recording...

Unschooling and Parent consulting, conversations, blogposts, and podcasts on family life and learning

Hi, I'm Cecilie Conrad. I'm a trained psychologist, mother of four, radical unschooler and full-time traveller. I have lived with unschooling for over a decade and help other families find their own path – whether it is about homeschooling, unschooling, or the bigger question of how you want to live as a family.

I offer guidance, conversations and talks. I call my work grandmothering – not coaching in the traditional sense, but presence, professional insight and concrete help navigating motherhood and finding your way home to your own values.

Am I the right person to help you? You can book a free discovery call, and we'll talk and figure it out.

Unschooling & Parent Consultant
Grandmothering – not coaching. Read more here

Listen to my podcasts

I share my knowledge and curiosity about family life and learning in my two podcasts.

Listen here
Listen here

Read my latest blogposts

Synchronicity | Day 190 of my 2023 Journal
The connection between our exit and the weather change would be perceived as non-existent and strange to even think about. Yet, Jung described these …Read more
Everything matters | Day 189 of my 2023 Journal
What matters the most is we stay alert and awake spiritually; we stay alive and present and ready to enjoy the journey of life. That we can engage in…Read more
Stay in flow | Day 188 of my 2023 Journal
Emotions are a good guidance system. When at peace, all is good; when excited, we are on track to something important, when annoyed, frustrated, or a…Read more
Halfway done! | Day 187 of my 2023 Journal
Having a clear value system and a clear goal makes it so much easier to “miss out” on what is happening here and now to achieve a greater goal. Ther…Read more
The adventure is the people | Day 186 of my 2023 Journal
Little did we know, before we left, that co-living would become our style. Initially, it seemed strange to move in with people, but lo and behold - r…Read more
The zero-day | Day 185 of my 2023 Journal
One of the significant advantages of the nomad lifestyle is scarcity. It keeps us awake. The fact we are not staying long anywhere makes it always ur…Read more
On the road again | Day 184 of my 2023 Journal
It is interesting how our life seems to be out here; our home base is moving around; we feel comfortable and happy when we have collected our energy,…Read more
This day is a true blessing | Day 183 of my 2023 Journal
“This day is a true blessing. Let’s not be afraid to use the word! Sharing all of the hours all of us together and how it unfolds truly is a blessing…Read more
Århus | Day 182 of my 2023 Journal
In the second largest city in Denmark, Århus lives one of my father's little brothers. The one I have the closest relationship to. We went to a nearb…Read more
Previous 1 2 3 … 23 24 25 26 27 … 48 49 50 Next
Synchronicity | Day 190 of my 2023 Journal
The connection between our exit and the weather change would be perceived as non-existent and strange to even think about. Yet, Jung described these …Read more
Everything matters | Day 189 of my 2023 Journal
What matters the most is we stay alert and awake spiritually; we stay alive and present and ready to enjoy the journey of life. That we can engage in…Read more
Stay in flow | Day 188 of my 2023 Journal
Emotions are a good guidance system. When at peace, all is good; when excited, we are on track to something important, when annoyed, frustrated, or a…Read more
Halfway done! | Day 187 of my 2023 Journal
Having a clear value system and a clear goal makes it so much easier to “miss out” on what is happening here and now to achieve a greater goal. Ther…Read more
The adventure is the people | Day 186 of my 2023 Journal
Little did we know, before we left, that co-living would become our style. Initially, it seemed strange to move in with people, but lo and behold - r…Read more
The zero-day | Day 185 of my 2023 Journal
One of the significant advantages of the nomad lifestyle is scarcity. It keeps us awake. The fact we are not staying long anywhere makes it always ur…Read more
On the road again | Day 184 of my 2023 Journal
It is interesting how our life seems to be out here; our home base is moving around; we feel comfortable and happy when we have collected our energy,…Read more
This day is a true blessing | Day 183 of my 2023 Journal
“This day is a true blessing. Let’s not be afraid to use the word! Sharing all of the hours all of us together and how it unfolds truly is a blessing…Read more
Århus | Day 182 of my 2023 Journal
In the second largest city in Denmark, Århus lives one of my father's little brothers. The one I have the closest relationship to. We went to a nearb…Read more
Previous 1 2 3 … 23 24 25 26 27 … 48 49 50 Next
See all my blogposts
Cecilie Conrad logo - dark
Cecilie Conrad logo - light
Blog
All my blogposts Unschooling 365 Days Challenge 2023
Podcast
The Ladies Fixing the World Self Directed
About me
My story - Cecilie Conrad Stay Updated: Get my Newsletter Visit my danish site CecilieConrad.dk
Consulting
Parent and unschooling support Free Discovery Call - Text me on WhatsApp Testimonials: What Others Say Prices and payment options